Shhhh… You Don't Know Me

March 9, 2010

Good News!

Filed under: Uncategorized — Shhhh @ 3:29 am

I ended up in the hospital last night, and found out I am not having a heart attack, I have an inflamed stomach.  So antacids, nonspicy diet, and I should be fine.

I must say though, that I’m PISSED at my husband.  When he came to bed last night after his last smoke, he found me getting dressed.  When he asked what I was doing, my answer was “going to the hospital”.  His reaction?  He hugged me, kissed my forehead and said “good luck” and went to bed.

I phoned my sister who took me down, and I have to tell you, I am flabbergasted.  I said to him today after work, “I cannot believe that you did that to me last night.  You let me go to the hospital by myself when I thought I was having a heart attack.  I never would have done that to you.”  He apologized, but I’m still really upset about it.  I just don’t even know what to say to him.  I’ve told him that I’m upset, so what more can I say or do?  But in the meantime, life just floats along.  He said sorry and that’s supposed to be it?  It doesn’t seem right.

I feel like I cannot rely on him.  He’s not my “go to” person, because of these kinds of things.  He’s not reliable.  He cares, but not enough to think about MY needs.  It was his bedtime, and that was his priority.

I don’t know what to think or do…



  1. *jaw dropped to the floor* I don’t know your husband or your past but I just can’t imagine anyone doing that! I would have gone with you, and I don’t even KNOW you. WTF? Do you have a history of just taking off to the hospital on a moment’s notice, and he’s gotten immune? I’m literally in shock.

    Comment by Carbzilla — March 9, 2010 @ 3:41 am | Reply

    • Nope, no history of that. That’s what I said… I’d NEVER do that to you.

      Comment by Shhhh — March 10, 2010 @ 12:05 am | Reply

  2. Yeah, I’d be pissed too. You are much more calm than me though…I’m such a kid. Glad to know you don’t have anything wrong with your heart though!

    Comment by Carrieredhead — March 9, 2010 @ 4:09 pm | Reply

  3. Aw, that makes me really sad. I’d be so upset if my partner did that.

    I’m really glad you’re ok, and I think that you need to talk to your husband. Your partner really should be your go-to person, that’s one of the definitions of partner, no?


    Comment by Izzy — March 9, 2010 @ 7:52 pm | Reply

  4. I’m sorry that happened Dee! Sounds like he needs a kick in the nads! I am very happy you are ok physcially though!

    Comment by ash — March 13, 2010 @ 2:30 am | Reply

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